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"score something"? Really?


I used "something" to refer to "a relationship," which is a non-gendered thing, hence "something."

My own question would be, why are you reading negative meanings into my words when positive meanings for the same context are available?


Poor choice of wording.

I'm 43. While this is no excuse, I suppose, I grew up in a time that was not as ridiculously P.C. as it is now. I find myself increasingly surrounded by this sort of sensitivity to any (even joking) conventionally-male analogies used when dating. I'm also a US Veteran and a member of a fraternity, two bastions of male-centrist worldview.

But also, just to be clear... Disgust is a non-argument. :P

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wisdom_of_repugnance


The fact that this and my own comments are getting downvoted on this is sad.


> The fact that this and my own comments are getting downvoted on this is sad.

It's because you have added nothing other that your own faked outrage at the legitimate use of scoring as a way to describe attainment of a sought after goal.


Actually my genuine concern (not outrage) is primarily that someone on HN feels that the use of the word 'something' to describe a woman is remotely appropriate. I'm calling the poster out on that because I feel like if they don't have it pointed out to them that that is inappropriate they'll continue to think it's okay. It is not okay.


"Something" doesn't necessarily refer to a woman. Could refer to a relationship, ala:

I want something that will make my heart race, something that feels real


I've never heard anyone describe a relationship as being 'out of their league'.


This is an extremely common expression, I thought. Google seems to indicate similarly with 847,000 results for the exact expression "out of (my OR your OR their) league".

So, not sure under what rock you've been. ;)

https://www.google.com/search?q=%22out+of+(my+OR+your+OR+the...


Then you haven't spent much time in male-dominated online spaces




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