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"That's not really called for"

Didn't mean it in a nasty way. And yes, actual physical attacks are unlikely as a response. Unfriendliness is rather likely, though. But if you have a hardened "shell", no problem. Or if you have become very adept at chatting.

Also, if those single girls at grocery stores are so desperate, why don't they make a move themselves?



> Unfriendliness is rather likely, though.

I'd say that is highly unlikely also. At worst you'll just get ignored :) but generally anyone will talk to you if you look and speak normal/friendly.

> Also, if those single girls at grocery stores are so desperate, why don't they make a move themselves?

Social convention. Also; this is the beginnings of a strawman because it's not like that at all :) the GP is just suggesting we talk to people more - which is always a good thing!


He said he knows scores of single women who are dying to be talked to.


Yep; which is why your point is something of a straw man - because it is the extreme interpretation of his point that doesn't stand up.




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