It's just game theory. You have to have follow through, or people will learn that they can ignore you.
Although the ethics are very different, think of a loan shark. What do they get out of breaking the kneecaps of a person who failed to pay their debt? It doesn't bring back the lost money.
But it does show you are committed to following through with consequences. And that changes the behavior of people who might face those consequences.
Although the ethics are very different, think of a loan shark. What do they get out of breaking the kneecaps of a person who failed to pay their debt? It doesn't bring back the lost money.
But it does show you are committed to following through with consequences. And that changes the behavior of people who might face those consequences.