I appreciate you feedback but I think you missed the part of my post where I mentioned that I’ve done intensive therapy with two wonderful therapists for several years , been part of support groups, worked with a hypnotist and also met consistently with spiritual teachers (forgot to mention that)
I actually very frequently get asked out in second and third dates, but the men haven’t seemed to be good fits 90% of the time. It’s not because they’re not perfect. It’s mostly because they were extremely rude to a server, pressured me to be sexual before I was ready or , yes, not always , but in certain cases were extremely unappealing to me physically and looked nothing like their profile picture.
I love imperfection just as much as the next guy, in fact prefer it. We connect where we are vulnerable.
I think the problem is bigger than my personal hangups which I’ve deeply explored.
I actually very frequently get asked out in second and third dates, but the men haven’t seemed to be good fits 90% of the time. It’s not because they’re not perfect. It’s mostly because they were extremely rude to a server, pressured me to be sexual before I was ready or , yes, not always , but in certain cases were extremely unappealing to me physically and looked nothing like their profile picture.
I love imperfection just as much as the next guy, in fact prefer it. We connect where we are vulnerable.
I think the problem is bigger than my personal hangups which I’ve deeply explored.